Friday, April 19, 2013

Stop Saying That!

OK i am so sick of everyone saying "you guys are always sick" or " you catch everything" etc. Folks, we are no more sick than your normal family with a toddler in day care. Not to mention that I personally had 4 surgeries last year. NONE were "elective" and all were necessary!!! I did not wish my self sick. Nor did I say "I think I want a 5cm cyst on my ovary". So shut up! Yes, I too wish that when they went in there the first time that they had taken all of it. But they didnt so shut up! My son got diarrhea from some unknown bug and got really dehydrated last year. IT HAPPENS!!!!! And then the whole family got the stomach bug this year and he got dehydrated again! IT HAPPENS!!! And we all have bad sinuses. Well, with the weather going from 30 degrees to 80 then back down to 30 with in a 48 hour time span, yeah, its gonna make us a little snotty! And yeah, I have shingles at age 34. Well lets see....I am on hormone replacement therapy (like a 50yo), have lost my grandma, my great uncle, and dealt with a lot of other stuff not to mention getting a new job after not working since 2009....you could say I am a little stressed. Number one cause of Shingles, STRESS!!!!!!! IT HAPPENS!!!! With that all being said, we are all on Zyrtec, I am laying low and trying to keep my hormones at a happy balance via doctor and blood test and we are ALL taking daily vitamins and probiotics. We live in a nice new house so no, my house is not contaminated with mold. I clean it often too. My son is going to catch bugs at school. Its what happens when we take our children to daycare. I cannot stop that. I need to work so my son needs daycare. OK so my POINT IS please stop saying that we are always sick and that there must be something wrong with me. Please stop calling me a hypochondriac because my illnesses are not something I can make up you guys! Please stop saying "OMG you guys are sick again?" well f-u! Just because you read my FB page today and haven't done so since two months ago when we were all sick doesn't mean that we are always sick!!!!!!!!!! On a lighter note, well there isnt one right now. Because I am stuck at home dealing with Shingles praying my son doesn't catch chicken pox from me. He has been vaccinated for Chicken pox but who knows if that will protect him 100%. I want to go back to work. I want to go enjoy this weather and play with my horse and barrel race and do all the things that I love to do. But I cant and it is NOT because I dont want too! SO next time you want to say "OMG you are sick again?" remember that I am fixing to say FU!!!! Maybe this is just my pain meds typing but I DONT CARE. Appropriate comments when someone mentions that someone doesnt feel good are "sorry to hear that" "have you tried....", "we will be praying for you guys", "sure hope it doesnt spread", "get well soon".

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